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Sunday, February 19, 2017

No ones Cares about me ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ง

I took to my WhatsApp broadcast list this afternoon and posted this; "no one cares about me" with a tearing emoji. I got a lot of replies, i definitely would share some of them.

The first reply I got quotes; "if no one does, I think your bf and Jesus does".
I replied typing; " and my family ".
The person went forward asking, so why do you say no one cares about you?
I dodged that question typing; "for reals, i am serious"
Surprisingly, I got this bomb, "if no one cares about you, then check yourself, including your attitude towards people". That one pierced into my skin and it remain small, i would have replied with something not nice, bluaarrrr!!! I did reply with something not nice sha.
I said, stop replying my messages, you have an annoying nature that pumps out when its not needed at all. Well, sorry to that person, no hard feelings.

The second reply i got says, " before person go care about a lady like you, the person first needs to take care of himself na". I laughed my ass out to that one.

This reply got me a little upset but reasonable though. It says; how come? I replied with, I'm broke.
Imagine his reply! "But Jesus Christ cares!"
He says, come unto me ye that labors and are heavenly loaded and i would give you rest. Just tell him what you want in prayers and he would answer you.
Chai!!! How that one take cure my lack of money for now. Brother at least you for say okay i would send you some cash and also pray to God to send you other helpers. I for they smile na because gone are the days manner falls from heaven.

Most replies said my boyfriend cares. I know he does na. He definitely have to care, if not why would he be my boyfriend. Ladies! If your spouse or bf's don't care, then let them go biko. For me caring is a basic necessity.

A dear friend of mine said, "just one look at you and am already caring about you. Looking at you, i feel like redoing valentine  all over." Only if she knew how i spent my valentine.

Besties and Boo said; "bae you know i care about you", of course, i do know that.

Someone's reply struck me the most, it says, "do something you love to do and let everyone know about it".  Anyways, dear readers!!! It's been a while i wrote or rather published a story on the blog and not a single soul missed my stories or anticipates them. So because of that, i am saying, no one cares about me, tears!!.

Little things like checking up on me when you don't see any of my write ups could uplift one's spirit to do something interesting. For reals, i missed writing stories. Am back from hiding... Lolzzz!!! Anticipate new and intriguing stories. If you care about me, resend the links of my stories to your friends.

I still remain your favorite story writer,
Cecey Diamond.

Sunday, February 5, 2017

Valentine's Special

 Yes o! Cecey diamond don come again o! This time na something wey I tag Valentine's Special.

The tori be say, you go just shout out to your loved ones on Valentine's day on the blog with shikini money.

You go think say no be something! But my guy! My sister! Na better be this kain thing because e dey sweet body, mind and soul.

Friday, February 3, 2017

Happy Birthday Dearie

I woke up on the wrong side of the bed today with a little pain over my neck but here I am all smiles in front of my dressing mirror. Isn't it surprising how am smiling sheepishly, even with the pain I feel on my neck? But I remember what date today is; his womb escape day. In deed! It is a glamorous day! Still on my dressing table, I flashed back to the time we spent together at the University of Ilorin. It was extremely exciting.

 I remembered sitting with him on a mat at our departmental fellowship picnic, little did I know that we would be this close. Our friendship started when he helped me with my food flask in his school bag, two times. His act of kindness propelled me into asking his name, after, of course, giving my appreciation. “I don’t even know your name” I said, "find out" he replied me. I heard his friends whispering Swagger. Obviously! Swagger is not a name per sรฉ, until one of them accidentally called Mayowa from a far, there and then I got to know his name.

 On my birthday, he came around and we got talking. During the Christmas period, we spoke a lot over the phone. After the break, I remembered offering him bread and egg on his first visit to my hostel, but he took a bite, forming porsche for me. Honestly, I never knew we would get to a stage where we would fight over a piece of meat.
 At first, he was always coming to meet me in the class where I study.
Deep down my heart, I will be like “oooh God!, he has come again". I always smile as if nothing was wrong.
Later on, I will ask him “when are you leaving?” but in return, he says, he wants to read with me. As time goes on, I began to enjoy his company.

 Our friendship became so unique, intense and interesting. I remembered those days we go to my fellowship and I tell him to climb the bike first, and then I sit behind him. It got to a time he refused bluntly, saying he must be behind, to protect me.  I was mesmerized the day I got back from church under the heavy rain shivering, late at night. You won’t believe he came to check on me under the heavy downpour that night. There was a day he had to buy drugs for me with his last money, yet I refused taking it, because I don’t like medicine. I saw the pain in his eyes when he realized I didn’t use it.

 Gone are the days we compete on who know how to cook better. One day he said, “you love my boiled meat just because its taste better than yours”. Well, that’s true, but I had to deny it. Even though his food always taste good, he acknowledged the fact that, the beans I usually make with sauce is sumptuous, likewise the fried rice. He will eat and still take away.
 Hmmnnn, money! Money!! Money!!! That was another argument of who likes money more. Well, will I say it’s me or him? The only thing I do more is cumulating his debts, the day of #500, #1000,#2000 etc. But at the end, I would have spent more than that from his own purse, yet I will still collect whatever he owes. But in his case, I will always find excuses of why I shouldn’t pay his debt and before you know it, it will be written off. Lmao.

 I remembered how he defended me even when I was wrong; he stood by me at every point and was always ready to protect me as much as he could.
 The interesting part is any time we have a misunderstanding, I tend to think more of him; I never knew we share the same sickness. This saying is true; the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Any time I offend him I know how to calm him down with a good meal. Anytime he offends me as well, he knows what button to press. Mayowa will do anything just to see me happy. There is really so much to write, but in summary I am happy I know him, I am glad to remember every moment we spent together and I’m happier we are still together. He is among the best few persons I have met in my life time. I am so excited to celebrate his first birthday as a graduate.

With so much love from my heart, I wish him a year filled with joy, happiness, mercy, favour and God’s blessing. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJAYI ADEYEMI ………IDOWU……..MAYOWA (A3IM2) {YOU CAN FILL IN THE OTHER A AND M}

Alonge Busola.

Friday, January 27, 2017

Unn Celebrities Night.

Unn Kings and Queens Forum presents The New Generation Celebrities night at Grace Manor hotel on the 28th January, 2017.

Your hosts would be; Anita and Melvin and the man on the wheel is no other person than DJ. Country -Man.

If you not at the party! You are most definitely wrong, because it promises to be fun.

Why do people Cheat?

Well, most of them do it over reasons like falling into temptations, for some; partner's inability to satisfy them sexually, it could also be as a cause of bad attitude of their partners and so on but there are some who just do it for the thrill and fun of it, which absolutely baffles me.

Just yesterday, I was out with my guy and a friend of his came to sit with us at our table. Prior to that, we had met ourselves earlier when my friend and I were entering the mall. This guy was with a very pretty lady. We all exchanged greetings and he promised to see us later.

The man was telling my guy that his wife came to the mall yesterday and embarrassed him. I was surprised and asked, you are married? He said he is married for six years now. He continued by saying he went to meet his wife and begged her not to make a scene that he would follow her home and leave the other lady behind. He said his wife took him to the police and they have him 24 hours to leave the house because this isn't the first time something like this is happening. The guy I came with then asked him, why should the police give you an ultimatum to leave your house and he said with his wide mouth that he is the breadwinner of the home. Once again, I was amazed but I kept my mouth shut.

He then started telling us about the girl he just saw off, that they met yesterday at the stadium and she came on to him, telling him that she wanted him and all. He told her he was married and the girl said it was okay to cheat if his wife wouldn't know about it. At this time, my mouth was just hanging open. Do girls actually do that??? Anyways, he continued saying that, they made arrangements to carry out their rendezvous.

The man left us for a while and went to toast another girl and was practically shoving his tongue down her throat in the open. My guy was like what is wrong with this dude?? When he came back, I showed my distaste in what he did and he was like the girl was interested in him because she gave out her number easily. I asked him if he cared for his wife at all and he replied blatantly saying he does but a guy's gotta have a lot of fun.

The guy in question has two kids for Christmas sakes, he went on bragging about all his sexual escapades and was even proud to say he has two baby mama's. This is a guy who doesn't have a good job and is waiting for the light of God to shine on his football career. He married the woman because he got her pregnant my guy told me.

I was left with the conclusion that love isn't just enough, maturity and character are key factors. No mature and responsible individual will do what this guy in my story did, no one!! if you know you can't stay committed to someone, don't put your partner in hell. Guys please try to be responsible and ladies don't just be with someone because they are cute, or they make you feel good etc. Be with someone who loves you and more importantly who has integrity. Do not also force a guy to marry you if you get pregnant, that's just wrong, you are giving him the chance to abuse you in your relationship (not necessarily physical abuse) And if you are in a relationship where your man can be likened to a dog, it's okay to walk away because it's better to be alone than to be in a relationship where your man or should I say partner because it goes both ways, hold no value to you. And most importantly, never forget to value yourself.


Ohalete Precious

My guy...

Marriage is not by force... Do not go and pick up one innocent man's daughter ... Keep her indoors and she would be awake all night wondering if her beloved husband is safe not knowing the buffoon is out there in a club flexing with another woman...๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก...

That is not even a fraction of my pain... What pains me the most is that the lady you have been using to cause untold emotional agony to that caring wife is not even half as beautiful as she is.... She is not as endowed with boobs and ass like your sexy wife at home... But that drunk lizard between your legs will never allow you see the difference between POUNDED YAM ( wife ) and IJEBU GARRI ( intruder )...๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜....

Instead of sending that lovely wife to an early grave just carry her back to her father please....

Marriage is for men and not BOYS...

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Can Blind dates lead to Serious Relationship?

A lot of persons don’t have the time and patience to wait for the right person to connect with them automatically via matters of the heart these present days. Having relationships are quite difficult as well as keeping one. Most times, the people we admire or want to date have already gotten themselves some other persons they claim to love. This could leave us focusing on other aspects of our lives. Other times, one is too busy with jobs or education attainment and their love lives suffers. This allows relatives, friends or third parties to set up blind dates.

A blind date is a social engagement between two people who have not previously met, usually arranged by a mutual acquaintance. Relatives and friends believe they know who is most suitable to make the best couple for you, so they try everything in their own power to match-make you with someone. Lately, we have sites that help with matchmaking. Yeah! Dating sites. All you have to do is make yourself available after fixing the venue, it could be in a coffee shop or at dinner or any other place you comfortable with.

After a blind date, the result is either positive or negative, negative in the sense that the blind date must have gone well but the person isn’t your type or the blind date didn’t go well at all. Positive in the sense that the date may or may not have gone well but you want to hook up again. Blind date Failures are as a result of obstacles in our mind; how the other person would look or act, how they would react to how we look and act, or how the date would go and what our escape strategy would look like.

Blind dates are completely awkward for both parties, be warm and welcoming. They are also likely to go well, if we set our expectations to neutral. Tare your mind to nothing at all, not nothing per se, average. Don’t expect too much and don’t expect too less, just normal, to avoid disappointment. Choose a nice and comfortable venue for the date. Often times than not, ladies always want the man to make the choice, to know what his tastes are like. Some smart men might give three to five options for the lady in question to make the final decision and I think with that, the chemistry could begin or it could make the blind date to be much anticipated.

For the guys, they should dress to impress. Ladies always love looking good when they go on dates but I doubt it is the same with men. Most men buy dresses that are not even their size. Worse part is, they wear them to the blind date. Trust me that is a very big turn off for gorgeous ladies. Arrive early to get the big field advantage; getting acquainted to the environment if you’ve never been there before. The two parties involved should try to calm their nerves as they make conversations. Try not to ask too personal questions but be a good listener and always give the other person the chance to express themselves; don’t be judgemental.  After the date, always leave on a high note and make your feelings known at this stage; so there would be no misconception about the date. In case you would love to hang out one more time or vice versa.

Blind dates are indeed exciting because you may have no idea about who the person you are meeting is, or what the person looks like, what interests the person, sometimes you don’t even know the person name. All you need is to be at exact time at the particular place. Isn’t that romantic?
I feel blind dates could lead to a very serious relationship, if the two parties involved are open minded and simultaneous. When you go for a blind date and the person intrigues you, in the process try to have subsequent dates. One could earn himself or herself a serious relationship. There is no lay down rule or regulation to finding love or to having a very serious relationship.

Cecilia Nwana


The Royal Family of the University of Nigeria Nsukka is set to inaugurate new Lords and Ladies into the Forum. Within the past years, they have taken it upon themselves to train, organise pageantries and crown the best of all departments, faculties and organizations within the school.

And now, on January 28th, 2017, she is set to induct the New Generation of Royalties in an event which will also witness the send off of graduated royalties and the official hand over of power to a new administration/Executives.
More importantly, they also have "Icons" who re though not crowned by d FORUM but by virture of portraying Exellence, became CELEBRITIES, such as studio managers, fashion designers, comedians, great MCs, skilled crew directors, Actors, etc. ll b Welcomed, entertained nd honoured. CELEBRITIES from far nd wide, from Calabar, Enugu, Lagos, Imo, other Universities nd also University of Nigeria ll b there to grace this celebration.

This UNN KINGS AND QUEENS FORUM is the first of such organisations in Nigerian universities, and prides herself for the many national and international champions she has trained and unleashed into the society. They have professional models, music artists, coaches, ambassadors, event organisers, winners of different pageant nd awards in Nigeria and managers, caterers etc. IF U ARE A CELEBRITY in the University of Nigeria Nsukka, be proud to join ur family because we are all CELEBRITIES & ROYALTIES, therefore, there is only a place worth being on the 28th of January, 2017๐Ÿ‘‰CELEBRITIES NIGHT & The Induction of the New Generation by UNN KINGS๐Ÿ‘‘ AND QUEENS๐Ÿ‘‘ FORUM.

The event is at Grace Manor Hotels and Suites, Nsukka.

A POOL PARTY celebration >yes, after its officialities, we all jump into d POOL. So dnt forget ur swimming trunks as u still dress official waiting for d family fun in d POOL.

Red Carpet starts by 6pm

Main event starts by 8pm
For more enquires call
Lrd. Amb. Cykloud-0803 898 1994 or Lrd.Amb. Dinachi-07069697263 or Lrd. Macdon-0703 837 2256

Be there!!!
We are Royalties๐Ÿ‘‘, and we are driven by Excellence!๐ŸŒŒ

Saturday, January 14, 2017

Can you take Insults from strangers for not replying their chats?

Hello CDR (Ceceydiamomd Readers) and welcome to another segment of my Pep Talk show. The show would be held every Saturday, please do well to anticipate it and also try to air your views through the comment box, surely you would get a follow up comment from me.

Have you ever been insulted for not responding to the chat? I personally thinks its very ridiculous for any human being to reign insults on someone for not replying his or her chats most especially on Facebook.

Anyways, some person tried chatting me up on Facebook and I didn't reply at first but later on, he called me STUPID. He said you are very stupid. I kept mute and after some time again without responding to his chats, he said that again and I asked him if he was Okay and he replied saying someone will chat you and you wont reply.

Honestly! I tried insulting him back and he insulted  my parents.

The Bone of Contention is;

1. If you were to be on my shoes, what would be your reactions?  would you insult the person back or ignore totally?

2. Have you ever insulted anyone for not responding to your chats and if you have, why did you do that?

Let's be honest please in our comments.

Friday, January 13, 2017

Weird Land

A land where walking close or holding hands with the opposite sex is a crime, sitting beside two opposite sex in a public vehicle is a crime that is, sitting in the middle of two ladies for a male and vice versa. Where taking alcohol is seen as a sin and smoking of cigarettes is just. Where men bend down to urinate like ladies and rinse off their uncircumcised thing with water. Where public display of affections is a taboo even for married spouse. Where the magistrates sentences you to 80 strokes of cane without a court meeting. Welcome to the land; KANO!

Ah! how do I write this? Should I start from the beginning? Abeg! I go start from wetin happen last night. My boo and I went to catch some fun. We went to Villa Atlanta in Sabon-Gari; a bar, to chill off the week's stress of finding a PPA. One thing about that town is that, its the only place alcohol is allowed and they have a lot of bars located in that vicinity. It is the chilling centre in Kano. We took some bottles and chicken pepper-soup. I had fun and was even sad when it was time to head back to the bush I stay, that was how we got busted. Should I stop here? I'm shy!

Okay! Let me continue. We stopped a Keke headed to our destination, the breeze was so cold that I was shivering because I wasn't with a cardigan. Imaging cold Kano plus cold breeze, na death be that, even if you are a cold blooded animal, you must shiver. Boo decided to show he was a caring man; he parted my arms to create some heat while I rested on his shoulders.

Omo! na so police stop the Keke o, him come talk say we don commit crime o and ordered the keke driver to move to the court. No be small thing o. I tried explaining to the officer that I wasn't feeling fine, very heartless man, you won't believe that he insisted we were taken to the court to receive adequate punishment for romancing in public. I was embarrassed not because I was under arrest but because I couldn't bare to see my boo being insulted practically for my own misdoing. If I had my way, I would have given the old cargo a dirty slap.

We got to the court and my boo had to bribe the man with a thousand naira, as rigid as he claimed to be, he collected the money and freed us. I went home in rage, pondering why big Alhaji's normally tint their vehicles? You never see through them.

Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Grail (4)

Precious, I'm dead o, I don't know what to do right now, and you know sleeping with Leo is not an option for me.

I do, let me think of who to call, okay!

As early as 6:30am, I got a call from Kip Kip; Precious ex-boyfriend. He sent a shuttle to pick me up from Leo's lodge. As i was leaving, i gave Leo #500 for the food he gave me the previous night and for the calls i made with his phone. Funny enough he collected it, I never expectedit! If i knew he would have collected it, i wouldn't have given him, honestly! Mtcheewwwww.

I narrated my escapade to Kip Kip and he was amazed. I was so happy as he received me well. I spent three days at the east instead of one week that i planned to stay and trust me, it was very boring even with Kip Kip system. After a week, I got another phone. A Samsung Galaxy S6.